.....he might be a jerkface. But I'm never supposed to say that because the children someday will read this blog and then they will know that I said it. And they won't think, "Gosh, Mom thought Dad was a jerkface" They'll think, "Mom thinks part of me is a jerkface" and to have your mother think that about you isn't good for them. So, I'm not saying he's a jerkface....I'm just leaving open that possiblity.
If you want to know more, you are just going to have to buy the book.